KEEPING KIDS IN THE CENTER, NOT IN THE MIDDLE
The pain of divorce is real.
Watching your child carry it doesn't have to be.
Get the clarity, confidence, and a playbook to keep your kids at the center of divorce — not in the middle of it — for the first conversation, the hardest year, and all the co-parenting after.
No one hands you a playbook when your marriage ends.
THE THING NO ONE TELLS YOU
YOU’RE ASKED TO →
Tell your kids. Make hundreds of decisions. Stay steady at transitions.
Respond to texts that gut you. Hold your own grief while protecting theirs.
Figure it out as you go — one hard moment at a time, hoping you're doing it right.
But you don’t have to do it alone.
Divorce may be part of your child's story. It doesn't have to be the weight they carry.
Research consistently shows that children's adjustment after divorce is shaped by what happens around the separation—especially the level of conflict they're exposed to and whether they're pulled into the middle.
Which means a lot of this is yours to shape.
You can't change that the divorce is happening. You can change what your child experiences as it does.
WHAT YOU’LL GAIN - A PLAYBOOK
What changes isn’t the divorce.
It’s YOU.
BEFORE THE PLAYBOOK
✓ Second-guessing every decision.
✓ Dreading every text.
✓ Scrambling for the right words with your kid.
✓ Carrying the weight of what to do next.
✓ Hoping your not making it worse.
AFTER THE PLAYBOOK
✓ Clarity about what your child actually needs.
✓ A pre-send filter for every message.
✓ Scripts for the hardest questions.
✓ A plan for what matters now and what can wait.
✓ Confidence that you’re protecting your kid.
Our Courses
THE CHILD-CENTERED DIVORCE PLAYBOOK
3 MODULES · "WHAT DOES MY CHILD ACTUALLY NEED?"
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01
The Truth About Children & Divorce
UNDERSTAND
A short foundation. Three modules. Under 90 minutes. The child-development context every divorcing parent needs before the paperwork or the plan.
10 MODULES · 18 RESOURCES • “WHAT DO I NEED TO DO FIRST?”
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02
A child-centered plan for the earliest decisions of separation & divorce — conversations, process choices, and daily life across two homes.
The First 90 Days
NAVIGATE
11 MODULES • 29 RESOURCES • “HOW DO I MAKE A TWO-HOME LIFE WORK?”
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03
Child-Centered Co-Parenting
CO-PARENT
The everyday practice of raising kids across two homes — communication, transitions, boundaries, and keeping kids out of the middle.
WANT THE WHOLE PLAYBOOK?
GET THE COMPLETE CHILD-CENTERED DIVORCE PLAYBOOK.
All three courses. One child-centered path from the earliest days of separation through life across two homes.
COMING NEXT
The Next Chapter
Dating, blending, and moving forward after divorce.
WANT ONGOING SUPPORT?
The Collective.
Courses give you the roadmap. The Collective helps you keep using it.
A members-only space with a monthly resource, a members podcast, and a growing library of scripts and tools you can return to as new situations surface.
JUST
$5
A MONTH • CANCEL ANYTIME
We've spent a combined 30 years working with the families that have been impacted the most by divorce. Now we're giving families the resources to give their children a better future.
WHO WE ARE
We're Kate and Hallie — a licensed family therapist and a psychologist with decades of combined experience in therapy rooms, custody evaluations, and parent coordination.
We've seen the exact moments where good parents accidentally put their kids in the middle. We've seen what shifts when they learn to do it differently.
The Co-Parent Collective is the help we wish every parent had — before something went wrong.
Start with the support you need right now.
PICK THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
“I want to actually know what I’m doing.”
START WITH →
Our Expert Led Courses
Three self-paced courses that walk you through what your child needs, what to do next, and how to handle the daily work of co-parenting — so you can stop second-guessing every decision.
“I need help with the moment in front of me.”
START WITH →
Our Free Resources
Practical guides, scripts, and tools for the real moments — the hard question your kid just asked, the text you're about to send, the handoff that's coming tomorrow.
“I need someone to help me think this through.”
START WITH →
Our 1:1 Coaching
Sessions with Kate or Hallie. Bring the actual problem — a specific text, transition, conversation, or decision — and leave with a plan.
OUR PURPOSE
The goal isn't a perfect divorce.
The goal is a child who comes through it whole.
That is our whole mission. The courses, the resources, the coaching — they all serve one promise: that your child doesn't have to carry the weight of what the adults around them are navigating.
If that's the parent you want to be, you're in the right place.
Child- centered guidance, straight to your inbox.
Practical tools, expert insight, and support for navigating divorce and co-parenting with your kids at the center.